I accepted the challenge from the Domino Project of #trust30. It is described as a, “30-day writing challenge that encourages you to look within and trust yourself. It’s an opportunity to reflect on your now and create direction for your future.” It is 11:13 pm and I haven’t made my post for the day. I took the challenge and I don’t want to blow it off on the first day just because I was “busy”. Today’s challenge is that you have just found out that you have 15 minutes to live. Set the timer and write the story that must be told. When I first read the challenge I interpreted it as how I would spend the last 15 minutes of my life if I knew it was the last 15 minutes. As I re-read the challenge now, I can see that it can be interpreted differently. Since it is late and it has been a long day I am sticking with my first response. Given 15 minutes to live I would…..
My first task is to let my siblings know so they can take over caring for Mom. Mom is in assisted living and I am responsible for paying her bills, going to Dr.’s appointments and overseeing her care. My first 5 minutes would be sent composing an email to my siblings to indicate that they need to look after Mom and make sure she is well cared for. That may mean moving her to a facility nearer them, working with the lawyer to get the power of attorney changed, etc. etc. All of the information is available for them to take over. Make sure they explain to Mom that I love her very much and am sorry to leave so soon.
My next big challenge is how to talk to my husband. Do I call? If I call, how do I explain? I don’t want to waste time explaining why I will only live a few more minutes (I guess I would know since there is a count down). The most important thing to me is that he knows he is the most important person in my life and I love him dearly. He can grieve but he will have to move on and continue to live his life. He is and will always be my best friend.
If I am able to hang up the phone with my husband, I want to be outside. I want to feel the sunshine, warmth and breezes upon my skin (luckily for me today is a beautiful day). The last thing I would want is to leave this world sitting in my office at work. My existence didn’t change the world, I can accept that. I can only hope that knowing me was a positive influence on the majority of people I interacted with. I hope I would be able to remain calm and accept my fate with dignity.
I still have a few minutes to spare. Take a deep breath relax and let life happen.
I’m certainly relieved that this is a “what-if” scenario – I’m not planning to go anywhere!